Wednesday, September 29, 2021

The Story of Monstera and Its Meaning in My Life

 


Ichi's Garden: Cheese plant - Photographed by Acik Mardhiyanti

Who says and where does the name come from? "widow" plant? Many people have known this plant as Monstera. So, what is the story about it,  any intriguing side behind this green foliage? This is my story that I treasure and stay in my storage of mind forever.

Cheese plant or some say Swiss Cheese plant was one of the foliage plants in my father's mini botanic garden. There were numerous flowers and plants with rage diversity in my father's garden landscape. He had been starting to collect those floras since the house finished. My father designed our big yards perfectly with a meticulous job where he selected the flower, foliage, and trees, that suited each spot. He said all black shiny stones with medium and small sizes that used to create a more natural look view at the garden were freshwater stones. I had no clue where he got those stones as we did not live in any nearby river. He chose a Cheese plant to fill one of the pots arranged in the terrace house.

Like other flowers collections, I did not know where this Monstera came from, did my father bought it from a garden shop or picked it from his friend's house, I was clueless. I even did not take notice when he planted it. It was probably during weekends when I had always been busy with my friends, my father spent his time doing gardening at home. Eventually, I found Monstera was fascinating when one of my father's siblings said, "Oh, I have this plant too at home, the name is "Holes of The Widow"." I was curious why a plant had such a name, it was weird and improper for me. I loved Biology and I was not on the page in this name. Moreover, I had believed this greeny plant had a Latin name just like another. For that reason, Monstera captivated me and I have admired this unique foliage since then.

After years living in Singapore, someday I saw a greeny foliage plant that have holes in its leaves. No doubted that it was the same plant in my father's garden collections. I bought it and now I have had this plant for about 5 years. I am delighted to have it in my mini "garden." It does not only remind me of my father's garden but also gives me a smile whenever I miss my father. Yeah, I have tried to find and buy flowers and plants that exist in my father's yards in the past because nowadays those are not in there anymore.

Each plant and flowers in my "garden" have their own stories. For me, personally, gardening is not a hobby like many people say. This is a passion, a job, and about responsibility to mother nature. That was what my father taught me. If some people think that planting flowers is a hobby then they would only fascinate with extravagant plants. This is what I have seen nowadays where many (mostly) my friends from the place I come from do gardening for a fancy and status social in the community. The more they collect such pricey plants or flowers, the more they wish for compliments. The aim is different if we love nature, the goal is to preserve and protect nature including the habitant in it so that we can create a better world for the next generation where humans and nature coexist side by side. Sometimes I just wonder, those priceless plants and flowers actually exist in the village some years ago where I lived in my hometown. Aglaonema, Caladium, Alocasia, Euphorbia, including Monstera, and many others, those were abundant in the past. For the past years, many villagers have been chop down trees, decimate plants that create habitat loss for some creatures for example birds, dragonflies, butterflies, squirrels et cetera, as the result, native village plants and flowers are sold in the garden shop at high-priced. One of my friends acknowledges it as he mentions that the nectarine bird is no longer spot in his hometown and is long gone because some or many people do not aware of the importance of trees and flora to its residents. In addition, deforestation will definitely aggravate the damage to nature. We, humans, are the ones who ruin our own world. If our world changes, the balance collapses, where would we live? 🙄 Exodus to Mars?🤔

My Cheese plant is also known as Monstera story has lots of meaning in my life. Besides reminding of my father, it is also my responsibility to preserve this unique plant. This is one of my jobs to keep it exist so that someday when I have kids I can tell them the story of my Monstera. It would be intriguing storytelling and will encourage them to do the same thing; love our nature and treasure it.

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Saturday, September 25, 2021

The Story of Cuphea Purple in My Childhood

 


Ichi's Garden: Cuphea Purple - Photographed by Acik Mardhiyanti

Have you ever heard Cuphea Purple flower? Or probably you know about it? For me, the Cuphea flower is not only just a plant but also has a story during my childhood life. It was a great and amazing moment and stay in my mind until today. 

I bought Cuphea Purple about 2 weeks ago where I went grocery shopping. The price is cheaper only $3 for one small pot of Cuphea Purple. Therefore I did not hesitate to pick it up and brought it home as my new member family in my "garden." After moving it to a bigger pot and place it in the right spot, my Cuphea grows well in health condition. I am delighted since it brings back my childhood memorable story!

It was one of my best friends who introduced me to the Cuphea Purple plant. I know her since kindergarten school and we had been becoming close friends since then. We explored our neighborhood every day with others to find a new flower, plant, or anything that was more interesting than playing with toys or dolls. We were not keen on those city's children's things as my friends and I were excited to ride our bikes and did adventure. It was the time when we were in primary school.

My friends and I had a hobby that none of villager children aren't interested in today. Besides finding a new plant and flower in our neighborhood, we collected and planted them in our yards at home. If one of us found a new one, immediately informed each other and shared what we found. Hence, we had numerous flowers collection and we got all of those without spent a single cent of money which meant free! How? Well, when we identified an interesting flower in one of the households, we just asked the house owner nicely and they gave us permission to pick in order to propagate it by ourselves. Sometimes when I went to my classmate's house, I did ask them to pluck one or some of their flowers and brought them home and propagated them. Yes, I had 2 distinct friends, one was friends from around my father's house, while another was friends from my school where mostly came from another district. These two groups of friends did not get along with each other. The reason was simply that both of those groups had different interests. I reckon I was blending in more than two groups. For this reason, I was able to collect many varieties of flowers effortlessly. 

Someday, one of my friends told me that she planted a plant that had a tiny flower. She showed me at her yards and I was amazed about what I saw. It was clear, she created her name on the ground by planting those tiny plants. "Isn't that great?!", she said. "amazing.", I replied. After saw such a creative idea, another friend and I were copied her bright project. Yes, we called it a project where we grew the Cuphea Purple in our garden. However, I was the one who was not able to create my name on the ground. The reason was that my father's garden had already been crowded with flowers. It needed some space, if I pulled the original flower from the garden landscape, my father would furious. Yes, I was allowed to plant flowers and plants (whatever I like) as long as did not break the original garden landscape; that was my father's rule and I had to comply with it. So, I planted my Cuphea Purple on the top left corner of my father's front yards and grew some others on the edge of the terrace house. 

Something that was intriguing about our journey to grow Cuphea Purple was that my friends and I did not know its name! That's true! Common flowers such as Rose, Jasmine, Hibiscus, Allamanda, Gardenia, we all knew as it had been taught in the class. Unfortunately, we did not have the ability to identify many species of flowers and plants around our neighborhood. It was sad, but we could not do anything about it since we could not barely buy books. How about the library? Our village did not have a library. School's library? Our school's library did not have those particular books collections. Internet? Well, dream of it!😆😅

Years passed, nowadays, I am easy to find this tiny purple flower in the flowers/ garden shop nearby at a cheaper price. Moreover, I can identify it! this is my progress after took years!😂 Another good thing is that it brings back my memorable moment with my friends in the village! On top of that, what I had done in the past when I was a child is the core of how I can become like I am today. And I am glad had many friends in the village who encouraged me to sharpen my knowledge and did something to preserve our nature.

The story of Cuphea Purple in my childhood life was unforgettable. It brought a friendship, learned nature, and how to take care of our environment into a better one. As far as I remember, many villagers adored our act because my friends and I created the village more lively. What we did was more educational rather than damaged the village's reputation. Therefore, it is a great story that I want to treasure.🤗

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  • Written by Acik Mardhiyanti
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